Grooms are often nervous when it comes to writing their own vows. I am not sure if it embarrassment about showing their feelings to all and sundry or a lack of confidence.
Whatever it is, I can honestly say that some of the most moving and funny vows have been written by a reluctant Groom.
Just as a little heads up, even the best public speaker will be nervous on his wedding day.
Here are some hints to help you write the perfect vows for your future partner. Ask yourself these questions.
- Why do you love her or him
- What are your thankful for. It could be that you are cared for or you are reminded to take your keys with you, regularly.
- What makes you smile about her/him
- What do you see in the future with her/him.
- What drives you crazy or makes you laugh about her/him (this always helps to lighten the moment)
- And finally what do you promise her/him. Whether it be to make them happy when they are sad or to put the Towels in the washing basket, not on the bathroom floor, the promises you make will be special and memorable, not a generic promise for all and sundry.
I can meet with you before your Marriage Ceremony and help you to personalise your Vows, plus I will put them on a beautiful card so you can read them to your partner on the day. Feel Better? Great!!!